my lolo (grandfather) passed away today. he reached a grand old age of 82.
i didn't cry when i saw his body lying limply at the ER table.
it was time.
i've witnessed how he survived numerous accidents and illnesses and how death attempted to take his life each time but has been spared anyway.
over lunch, my family casually discussed the funeral arrangements, internment, and all necessary preparations, when i blurted out, "so, how's life gonna be for lola (grandmother)?"
even i surprised myself over that statement.
then reality sank in. i began to wept. i felt sad not over lolo's death, but for lola. what will happen to her? how will she live a life by herself? they have always been a constant companion. who will she take care of now? would life still be worth living for?
as i ponder on these thoughts, i understood why Jesus had a soft spot for widows.
"Do not exploit widows or orphans. "
- Exodus 22:22
"He gives justice to orphans and widows. He shows love to the foreigners living among you and gives them food and clothing. "
- Deuteronomy 10:18
`Cursed is anyone who is unjust to foreigners, orphans, and widows.' And all the people will reply, `Amen.'
- Deuteronomy 27:19
Father to the fatherless, defender of widows-- this is God, whose dwelling is holy.
- Psalm 68:5
The LORD protects the foreigners among us. He cares for the orphans and widows, but he frustrates the plans of the wicked.
- Psalm 146:9
Learn to do good. Seek justice. Help the oppressed. Defend the orphan. Fight for the rights of widows.
- Isaiah 1:17
